We Dress Up For Our Chicks! Keeping It Real In The New Year

There used to be a time when I would dress up to get the attention of a cute guy at the bar. As I got older I watched women find themselves through fashion, fitness, family, and friendship. So much so that I started dressing for me and also kind of for them! Let me explain…

I have an amazing group of women that are always keeping me on my toes. If we go out to brunch, they put in the extra five minutes to throw on lipstick or some statement earrings. When out for drinks after a long week they manage to throw on their new shoes and own the room when they walk in. I think it is a combination of the surge of confidence that we get as we age mixed with some fashion elements, but either way – women are always ‘bringing it.’

This Satin Top Is $8 and available in so many colors!
Sonia’s go-to high waisted leather skirt is $35
My Kendra Scott double ring is a favorite, see it here!
These edgy Fendi earrings are stunning and linked here.

I went to the Georgia Aquarium recently and was so proud my fellow chicks! All the Moms were on point. I am talking matching hats, bags, boots, you name it- they were rocking it. The Dads- not so much. I was so impressed at the commitment that women have to feeling great about themselves at all time.

So when I say that I do it for the ladies, what I mean is that I am NOT going to be left behind. They motivate me to get up and show up every single day. After all, how can you put your best foot forward without confidence? I admit a lot of my confidence comes from feeling ‘put together (as you can see here)’ but is that a bad thing?

This bodysuit is $8, I am wearing a size Medium and love it!
My Initial Necklace that I wear everyday is from Nordies and is linked here.

This knot sweater comes in so many colors and fits like a glove, for $17, its a steal!
With Leopard Print Sweaters taking over my feed, I had to find one just to get me through the season, well– here it is and for $26 you can get the look for less.

Staying on top of trends in a way that does not break the bank is a great way to stay motivated to bring it each and every day. I had been dragging my feet on placing my first order with Shein. I was nervous about the quality and construction of tops that cost $8-$10! Turns out, this company is a hidden gem. I can stay on top of all the latest trends at a fraction of the cost. Check out some of the looks from my latest haul above.

Shop SHEIN for the latest in Fall and Winter Fashions

Do you feel the same way I do? Do your friends help empower you by being on top of their game?

Your Chick,

Rina

Chicks Picks:

“Just Like Mommy” Fashion by Jems&A

October 11, 2017

I’ve always believed that confidence comes from within. You can’t fake it.

When my family comes together at the end of the day, we sit over dinner and discuss the things we are most proud of from the day. It might sound self-indulgent, but we hope that in recognizing our strengths and accomplishments we can be encouraged to continue to improve. Although it’s easy to focus on the “weight we need to lose” or the “wrinkles that are creeping in,” teaching self-acceptance can be a great confidence booster. It’s amazing, as a mother of two, to watch how much we influence the level of confidence our children have. But there is something I have learned about confidence: it is multidimensional. While self-worth comes from within, our outward selves can impact how we feel about our inward selves. Even though confidence isn’t always driven by what you see on the outside, it can definitely influence it.

I have observed my almost 7-year-old daughter watch me get ready for the day. Some days I feel like wearing yoga pants and no make up. Other days, I feel like wearing heels and a dress that make me feel good. When in both looks, I make it a point to be body positive and self-accepting as I know she’s listening to my thoughts and watching my actions. I’m certain I’m not alone when I admit there have been times that my daughter has emulated me in a way that I am not proud of. I use those moments as a stiff reminder that she’s watching and I need to be sure to send the right message about self-esteem and confidence.

My daughter loves to dress up. One of the looks she loves best is when our clothing matches. It could be as simple as matching colors, style, or even patterns. She can tell when I am “feelin’ myself” and she has a way of emulating that momentum. I don’t claim to have a perfect body or a beautiful face but one thing that I love the most is when I feel confident in my own skin — and I want to teach my daughter to feel the same.

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I recently stumbled across a really fun website called Jems&A. It’s a female-owned business whose mission is to design and style children’s clothing to help kids express their creative side in what they choose to wear. The Chicks love to support women’s businesses that also promote positivity! Their clothes were appropriate for my daughter and consistent with my own personal style which made it easy to do some “mommy & me” matching. They have clothes for not only daily wear but also for a fun night on the town.

Making memories with my children is what I cherish most in this short life. Taking the time to focus on my relationship with my children is one of my main priorities. It was fun to play dress-up with my daughter and incorporate laughter into our fun looks! If you like what see here in the post, consider checking out Jems&A. If you use the code ChicksAndSalsa20, you can get 20% off an order of $50 or more.

Feel good, look good, and share that same confidence with your mini! To read about how to discuss compassion with your mini, check out our post here.

Your chick,
Sonia